Ok, no, I haven’t actually read the book, BUT wait don’t leave…I’m promoting it because of the author.
I’ve been reading a few posts on Sex Therapist- Dr. Tammy Nelson’s site and I’m really enjoying them!
She has some rather interesting things to say- check it out: http://www.drtammynelson.com/tammy-nelson-about/
The ecstasy of delicious natural sex is the foundation upon which an intimate couple builds a mutual sexual admiration for each other. Natural lovemaking is completely different from circumcised sex. It’s a gentler interminging, a tender blending—an enrapturement oozing with sensuousness—with both partners swooning in ecstatic surrender to the passionate, graceful dance of the sex organs. And these feelings create feelings of love for your partner. A love that is strengthened with each sexual encounter. (unknown)
So what are your thoughts on the matter? What do you do prefer cut or uncut? I’d love to hear from the men on this one!
To know the difference between erotica and pornography you must first know the difference between naked and nude. ~Bernard Poulin
5.World’s Biggest Orgy – 250 couples
This title is held proudly by the Japanese! They also ensured that the entire event was choreographed!
4.Biggest Penis
The most impressive medically verified penis sets the sex record at 13.5 inches (34 cm) long and 6.25 inches (16 cm) wide, measured in the early 20th century by Dr. Robert L. Dickenson
3.Youngest mother
The youngest girl to give birth was 5-year-old Lina Medina, born in Peru in 1933. Incredibly this girl began menstruating at age 3, and despite being impregnated in the “usual” way, has never revealed who the father is. Her father was arrested and imprisoned on suspicion of incest, but was later released due to lack of evidence. The baby was delivered by caesarean because Lina’s hips were too narrow.
2. Oldest Father
The world’s oldest father has done it again, fathering a child for at least the 21st time, at the age of 90. Indian farmer Nanu Ram Jogi
1. Strongest Vagina
She started working on it after having her baby; she said that her mucles became very weak and decided to do something about it! WOW
I have an older cousin who clearly had a “type,” he knew what he liked and only really spoke to women that fit that particular criteria. All of his female friends (in my opinion) looked like they could be related!
As I got older I didn’t really consider myself as the kind of person that would have ‘a type,’ but the more I reflect on my life the more obvious it becomes that I did.
While there were certain qualities that I looked for in a partner and a friend, these preconceived notions of what a person should be; extended far beyond their personality.
My partner does not fall into that perfect cylindrical slot I thought I wanted; rather he’s more like a square with round edges. The interesting thing however, is that my relationship with him is fantastic! Rather than dating a carbon copy of myself I have someone that compliments me.
What I finally understand is that just because you are a circle, it does not mean that your partner has to be one too. My square proudly stands beside me and provides a balance I would not have had if he were anyone else.
This thinking goes much further than personality types and physique. Being attracted to someone with a different make-up proves to be very stimulating in many other ways. You force one another to look at life from a different perspective.
I`ve said all that just to say this, think outside of the box! If what you needed was inside you would have already found it!
I stumbled up on this really interesting article while on Stumbleupon.com
http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/1Lfa0F/www.psychologytoday.com/collections/201107/best-july/the-problem-porn/
Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction Is a Growing Problem
Internet porn appears to be “sex-negative” for many users.
Published on July 11, 2011 by Marnia Robinson in Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow
A growing number of young, healthy Internet pornography users are complaining of delayed ejaculation, inability to be turned on by real partners, and sluggish erections.
Lots of guys, 20s or so, can’t get it up anymore with a real girl, and they all relate having a serious porn/masturbation habit. Guys will never openly discuss this with friends or co-workers, for fear of getting laughed out of town. But when someone tells their story on a health forum, and there are 50-100 replies from other guys who struggle with the same thing. This is for real.
I was first introduced to this concept in the 2003 Film – Love Sex and Eating the Bones
The film is
“A sexy urban comedy about how a guy who is addicted to watching pornography discovers love is stronger than fantasy when he meets and falls in love with the girl of his dreams.”
(http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0342316/)
Here’s a clip from the film; the trailer doesn’t do it justice but I thought I’d post it anyway
It’s really ridiculous that this generation is allowing porn to destroy their sex lives, I spoke about this in an earlier post and I am truly annoyed by it. People seem to forget that porn is just TV; like everything else on television it has been edited, re-touched, scripted.
Sadly, people are finding themselves in a real life funk over this!
You cannot allow Porn to destroy your sex life. Feel free to refer to it for ideas and if you think you’re mentally strong enough to watch and understand that it is only a ‘show’ then that’s fine; however if you are watching hoping and praying that you will find someone exactly like that or critiquing yourself then perhaps you’re not really ready to indulge.
Seems like we need to have a closer look at the Porn industry on a whole, but that’s another story for another day.
Masturbation: the primary sexual activity of mankind. In the nineteenth century it was a disease; in the twentieth, it’s a cure~ Thomas Szasz
It is also what this song is supposedly all about …
Some of the success of the song is because it is widely believed to be about female masturbation
Enjoy, and decide for yourself!
Relationships are just so amazing in the beginning! Things tend to be absolutely wonderful (all the time) both parties are really enjoying the Honeymoon phase, that’s when both people are on their very best behaviour trying to impress their partner; often going above and beyond to show just how committed they are to the relationship.
While doing some browsing on the topic I came across a couple of interesting thread posts, I was most interested in finding out what exactly most people defined the honeymoon phase as, as well as how long this phase typically lasted.
http://www.askmen.com most people said 6 months to 1 year
Someone rephrased the question to:
At what point in a relationship does work and sacrifices begin to register as “work” and “sacrifice” in your mind? I think that is when a lot of people wake up and acknowledge inequities in the division of labor, concessions made to their partner, etc.
People get comfortable and then they have a tendency to get complacent! Sad, but unfortunately for many it’s true. They no longer make a concerted effort to make their partner feel loved. Whatever happened to that occasional sexy outfit or that bed covered in rose petals? After a while these two people that were madly in love (and likely still are) no longer feel the need to put on their best outfit or more importantly hold their tongue.
It is at this point (in my opinion) that the relationship truly begins. It is at this point that many couples begin to have difficulty.
Here are a few tips to help cope with the ending of bliss and the beginning of reality:
1. Communication is key- keep it open and calm. If you’re having difficulty use other methods
2. Don’t completely forget the romance- sure you may not go out on a date every Friday night, but make sure to remind the other people just how special they are to you
3. Do not use sex as a medium – while Sex is enjoyable it should not be used as a tool to forget the problems at hand! Remember after the shower your problem will still be there!
4. Every once in a while remind yourself how you and your significant other fell in love in the first place. Sometimes all you need is a reminder!
Just remember this is life, you cannot be on a constant vacation but you can enjoy what you do so much that is does not feel like work!
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